As I began to love myself

Charlie Chaplin vs A. McMillen




As I began to Love Myself – is a poem that Charlie Chaplin supposedly wrote or read in his 70th birthday; although there is some disagreement about this and some people say (this turned out to be wrong) that it was actually a translation of text from the book “When I Loved Myself Enough” by Kim & Alison McMillen.
In any case, the text of the “As i began to love myself” is a very nice poem, and it is useful to read it …




Charlie Chaplin
(or Alison McMillen)


As i began to love myself




As I began to love myself,

I found that anguish and emotional suffering

are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth.

Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY.



As I began to love myself

I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person,

even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it,

and even though this person was me.

Today I call it RESPECT.



As I began to love myself

I stopped craving for a different life,

and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.

Today I call it MATURITY.



As I began to love myself

I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time,

and everything happens at the exactly right moment,

so I could be calm.

Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.



As I began to love myself

I quit steeling my own time,

and I stopped designing huge projects for the future.

Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness,

things I love to do and that make my heart cheer,

and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm.

Today I call it SIMPLICITY.



As I began to love myself

I freed myself  of anything that is no good for my health

– food, people, things, situations,

and everything the drew me down and away from myself.

At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.

Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.



As I began to love myself

I quit trying to always be right,

and ever since I was wrong less of the time.

Today I discovered that is MODESTY.



As I began to love myself

I refused to go on living in the past and worry about the future.

Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening.

Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.



As I began to love myself

I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick.

But As I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally.

Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.



We no longer need to fear arguments,

confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others.

Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born.

Today I know that is LIFE !



Charlie Chaplin (or Alison McMillen) – As i began to love myself




Charlie Chaplin – On his 70th birthday: As I began to love myself




متنی از چارلی چاپلین
در تولد هفتاد سالگی اش

ز وقتی که شروع به دوست داشتن خودم نمودم




Charlie Chaplin


Sir Charles Spencer Chaplin (16 April 1889 – 25 December 1977) was an English comic actor, filmmaker, and composer who rose to fame in the era of silent film. Charlie Chaplin became a worldwide icon through his screen persona “the Tramp” and is considered one of the most important figures in the history of the film industry. His career spanned more than 75 years, from childhood in the Victorian era until a year before his death in 1977, and encompassed both adulation and controversy. (from: wikipedia)


Charlie Chaplin

Main filmography



The Kid (1921)

A Woman of Paris (1923)

The Gold Rush (1925)

The Circus (1928)

City Lights (1931)

Modern Times (1936)

The Great Dictator (1940)

Monsieur Verdoux (1947)

Limelight (1952)

A King in New York (1957)

A Countess from Hong Kong (1967)


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